Matthew 5:4 

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

According to the Oxford dictionary, the word mourn means deep sorrow or regret.  Unlike the other Beatitudes, I’ve really struggled with this one. Who comforts those who mourn?  The sentence makes it sound so easy, “Comfort comes to those who mourn, so hang in there. You’ll feel better eventually!”  

For some, comfort never quite reaches their losses or regrets.  The mourning festers, even as life continues to trip along.  So what is Jesus promising?  I used to think that this statement was a promise of comfort in the hereafter.  That may, in part, be true. But for some, that’s a long time to wait.  

Where is our comfort in that long waiting?  Pastor Caroline preached on Pentecost this past Sunday – God’s gift of the Holy Spirit bestowed on humankind. The gospel of John actually refers to the Holy Spirit by name as the “Comforter” in numerous places within his gospel.  Though mourning never quite ceases in the here and now, comfort can be found through the Holy Spirit. I do believe in that promise from God. 

Where does one find The Comforter?  For me, nature’s quiet serenity speaks its peace.  I have also experienced God’s comfort in familiar hymns and songs of praise, in scripture, and in the loving arms of dear friends who share my grief or regrets. Sweet Spirit, please extend your comfort!  

Dear Lord, may we be ever aware of our own mourning. May we acknowledge it and allow its need to surface. May we be ever aware of our siblings around us, who also mourn and need our comfort. And finally, may we be aware of your Spirit who speaks comfort – and love – even in this terribly imperfect world. 

Blessings,

Diana